THE
TREASURE CARDS MINISTRY CAN HELP SAVE MARRIAGES & BUILD FAMILIES & IS
GREAT OUTREACH THAT CAN BRING PEOPLE TO JESUS AND GROW THE SIZE OF YOUR
CHURCH Churches can battle
the high rate of divorce and family pain in America through our Marriage and Family
Treasure Cards Ministry. However, this ministry is also a powerful outreach and
evangelism tool. Our Marriage and
Family Treasure Cards Ministry is: (1)
a way for church and community families to have great conversations that build
stronger family and marriage relationships, and (2)
a way to fight divorce and its many harmful consequences, and (3)
a very important ministry that brings each of your church households into continual
contact with at least 3 non-church families to help them and tell what your church
has to offer, and (4) an easy outreach
ministry for almost every family, single person, child and senior in your church
anyone who has contact with other families at work, in the neighborhood
and elsewhere, and (5) a great resource
for discipling your members into Christian ministry and service. 
Treasure
Cards are 4 and a quarter inches by 5 and a half inches. Treasure
Cards teach dialogue and stimulate hundreds of helpful and fun conversations.
Your church can distribute them to strengthen marriages and families as well as
give kids critical skills for lifetime success. This will fight divorce and family
pain as well as be excellent outreach to bring people to your church. Each
of your church households (families, singles, marriages, seniors) can hand out
Treasure Cards week by week in loving service to your community. This personal
touch can be quite effective. For
only $5 a month, each household can have their own servant evangelism ministry
that helps families, couples, and kids. For $30 a church household gets 4 sets
of 26 Treasure Cards for a six-month ministry in an attractive Ministry Kit Box.
One set is for the church family to use and the 3 others are to give to non-church
families, one at a time over 26 weeks. $30
buys 4 sets of Course One (26 cards containing 390 critical family dialogue conversations
starters), including 4 ten-sided dice, 4 instructions sheets, 4 zip lock clear
plastic bags plus a lot of back-up information on the Internet at www.FamilyTreasureCards.com. 
The
first Treasure Card is given out with
an instruction sheet and a ten-sided die to add an optional fun
game-like atmosphere in a clear plastic, zip-lock bag. While
a Ministry Kit asks church households to reach out to 3 or 4 families/marriages
outside the church, we sell Sets outside of the Kit. CLICK
HERE to inspect this option. |
This
will help reduce drug abuse, underage drinking, alcohol-related car accidents
and deaths, delinquency, poor school performance, lifelong underachievement, sexual
molestation by step-parents, child abuse, teen suicide, unwanted pregnancy and
other serious societal problems. Let
your members follow Jesus into your community where He wants to help others through
you! | We
also have a 4-Card Sample Pack for mass distribution for church planting efforts.
Click here to examine. |
A
WEEKLY TOUCH OF LOVING CONCERN At
the beginning, your members ask three families outside your church if they would
like to receive the Treasure Cards weekly to better their marriage and family,
as well as give their kids important skills. These
families are usually readily available as friends, neighbors, relatives or people
at work. Then, each week your members
give them their next Family Treasure Card or Marriage Treasure Card. 
Each
Treasure Card has 15 dialogue items to build family and marital communication.
This deepens relationships and gives family members a wealth of skills, including
verbal, social, thinking and problem-solving skills so necessary to the success
of children and teens. A ten-sided
die is included to add an optional fun game-like atmosphere to the conversational
experience. WEEKLY
CONTACT IS NECESSARY FOR EFFECTIVENESS & MAKES GREAT OUTREACH One
Treasure Card is given out each week. The reason the whole pack is not given has
to do with effectiveness, not outreach manipulation. Receiving all of the cards
at once seems overwhelming and the full pack gets placed out of sight and out
of mind. Handing out one a week is
more effective to get families and marriages talking over time – a habit critical
to marriage and family success. (America needs what we do to help families to
work - effort is just not enough.) Weekly
contact, however brief, makes your people available to care about the non-believer's
family. This continual contact emphasizes how much Jesus and your church cares
for that family. (However, there may
be cases where the whole of Course One must be handed out all at one time. While
not ideal, it is still better than not giving a family anything to help them have
helpful conversations.) THOUSANDS
OF HELPFUL CONTACTS IN JESUS' NAME For
example, a church with 50 participating households will have weekly contact with
150 family units outside of the church. That makes 3,900 helpful outreach contacts
every six months, 7,800 in a year if you use Course Two. It
is our hope that three times the number of households in your church will appreciate
your concern. And when the Holy Spirit moves them to try church, yours will likely
be at the top of their list. Just
as important is that your church will be battling divorce and family breakdown
in your community. The divorce rate is out of control! Let's reduce it. BUILD
THE FAMILIES OF YOUR CHURCH Even
before outreach concerns, using Family Treasure Cards to improve the marriages
and families of your church is critical. Each divorce in your church is very painful.
And, every time a child or teen goes astray, it makes church leadership wonder
what more could have been done. HELP
YOUR PEOPLE INTO MINISTRY This
is a real ministry. As such, it has a bit of work attached to the effort. That
is good. Your members want to do
something that "really counts" in the long run. By spending their own
$30 for a six-month ministry they can call theirs, and by putting a few minutes
into that ministry each week when they pass out Treasure Cards, they make Jesus
Christ known to your community, build up their confidence for serving, and promote
your church's concern for people. TREASURE
CARDS BUILD BOTH FAMILIES & MARRIAGES Family
Treasure Cards and Marriage Treasure Cards are mixed at a ratio of 2 to 1. Family
Treasure Cards are given on Week 1 and 2. Then a Marriage Treasure Cards is given
on Week 3. This rotation repeats. This
means that the family has three weeks to have conversations from the two Family
Treasure Cards they receive during that period. The couple, provided it is not
a single-parent family, has three weeks to have the 15 conversations on the Marriage
Treasure Card given out. (There are alternatives for single parents and married
people without children.) 
26
weeks The 26 Treasure Cards in
Course One provide a ministry for six months. But, there are five more Courses.
A church can choose to keep this weekly contact with community families going
for 3 years, matching the amount of time Jesus walked this earth in ministry.
Additionally, there is tremendous
educational value for children if the outreach is continued for the full three
years. The 108 Family Treasure Cards (1,620 tiems for dialogue) are also a training
package to give kids the verbal, social, thinking and problem-solving skills they
need for lifetime success with people. This training also helps them develop important
values, wisdom, a positive "can do" attitude, and a sense of responsibility
for people and tasks, including chores. The
48 Marriage Treasure Cards (720 items for dialogue) in the six courses cover most
of the important things couples need to talk about. It
only takes about 15 minutes a week to pass off the Treasure Cards. So, it could
be kept up for years and years. Concerned and loving contact by the families of
your church can demonstrate Christ's steadfast love for your community. PROVEN
EFFECTIVENESS The effectiveness
of this approach to building families and marriages and fighting social ills has
been shown in Wyoming. After a year's testing, the First Lady of Wyoming used
our Great Family Conversations Tool Kit statewide for National Family Night on
September 26, 2005. Many churches participated and about 3,000 families participated.
The 600 items of this tool kit are included in the Family Treasure Cards. |